I'm so tired, tired of waiting on you

I thought that maybe it was about time for me to write again, I put it off because I've had someone to release all my thoughts on to for the last month & a half. Thats been slowly changing & I mentally do not know how to deal. I share this not because I want my friends feeling sorry for me, but in hopes that I can some how make sense of my situation. Everyday for the last week I've been checking my phone every chance I get hoping to see a missed call or text message from Josh...& nothing. Negativity runs in & out of my thoughts & leaves me feeling sad & hopeless. I try keeping myself busy & around people that build me up, but my thoughts always end on him. We had been fighting a lot & he just got sick of it. He said we needed a breather, that we needed time to miss each other & not talk for a couple of days (bullshit in my mind) but I agreed to it. I refuse to lose him because of futile problems that have solutions. A break is not the solution to a troubling month long relationship. But if he wasnt happy because of how much we were fighting, then I believed I needed to honor that. Was I wrong? I dont know. Tomorrow it will be a week since Josh & I talked... Doubt has begun clouding my mind & now I feel I am left in the dark, with no idea about what he is thinking or where our relationship is going. I took the last week for myself as well. I thought about a lot of things & a lot of people. I enjoyed my time, though I struggled not calling him any chance I got, I believe I have given him what he says he needed. But its been about a week & I am getting tired; emotionally & mentally. Is this worth it?

Not a real update

Because I havent had a chance to sit down & write, here's a quick update:

1.I'm still working at the physical therapy clinic. I still love it, & I am thankful everyday for a job that pays my bills...But my boss is still an idiot.
2.I dyed my hair a couple weeks ago & its light, some high&low lights (thats for those of you who dont see me often)...& I think I like it.
3.I am loving wednesday nights with our youth group & looking forward to the new program this summer. It will be so much more intimate & I really think its going to grow us closer together, as leaders & especially grow our relationships with the kids, who by the way, I am loving more & more every week...& I cant believe I was considering leaving.
4.I started going back to my church on Sundays. its been a huge blessing.(still going to Monday night Bible study @ Inland Hills Church)
5.I am learning to invest much more in the friendships that I actually care about & letting go of friendships that weren't going anywhere.
6.Last but not least, I have been in a relationship for almost a month with a very lucky guy named Josh & its easier more often than it is hard. He lives in Indiana (that's the hard part) but we talk constantly (that's the easy part) We have plans. (detailed description requires a whole other post)... & hes amazing.
7.In other words, I am the happiest I've been in a long time. Those are just a few reasons why.



Note to self:
I promise I wont go so long without writing.

Lust

Lately I've been enjoying spending more time alone. I'll sit at home listening to music & reading random articles or picking up a book I put down months ago. (I can't seem to finish any books lately) I like books that I can relate to. & there has only been one book that loved so much I read it multiple times & highlighted the crap out of it's pages. It made me feel a certain way & challenged me to think about love in a different way ( sorry to dissapoint: it's not the Bible I'm talking about ) This novel warped my romantic fantasies of relationships & gave me a raw example of love vs. lust.
In the last few months I've reached high moments when it comes to relationships, & now I'm here in a leveled & comfortable & content place. I love it. I'm not crediting a book for my contentment, but I AM learning from the failures & accomplishments of a fictional character who was afraid of committment. I think it's hilarious.

" If he'd only say, stay... she would offer up her life to him."

Someone like you?

I wish I had the heart to write right now, but most of everything inside of me is tied up. & its tied up because I am holding on so tightly to something that clearly has no hope & that is even harder to accept. I don't even know how to let go & free myself of the pain it brings me.

Life lesson?

I cant believe how many hours I could actually spend looking through old journals & old pictures. Immediately my mind is flooded with memories of the exact moments when I wrote all of those things down & the moments following after; all of the things I didn't write & wish I had. It seems so long ago. I wish I had written a more detailed description of the things that happened or the things that were said. I'm not talking about any specific moment I documented in my journals, all together I wish I could remember every detail of my years that have lead me to where I find myself now. Sometimes I think about carrying a video camera & capturing every favorite moment of these last couple months. I don't want to forget any of it. I try to remember it all so that I could replay it in my mind whenever I want to, but as time flies by I'll remember what happened but forget what I felt, or vice versa. I suppose its impossible to hold on to everything.

I wish I had more memories of my family members that have passed away. I have so many, but I bet there is so much that I don't remember. What a beautiful gift God has given us, that we are able to experience remembering those that no longer walk with us. I've never thought about that until tonight.

I have found only ONE picture of just my uncle & I, yet I could remember hundreds of moments I spent with him from just looking at it. It was taken on my 15th birthday & he's wearing a black tux, his hand was on my back while we posed for the picture & we're both smiling. It is a beautiful memory that I hold so close to my heart.

So when I spend time looking through the things of my past I am reminded of how far the Lord has brought me & the different people that have made a difference in my life, good & bad. up until tonight I thought that, if given the opportunity, I would actually go back & change some things, but now I know I wouldn't.

All of this started tonight because I went to put my sandals away in my closet... where I keep my journals...

Time

I'm sorry I havent had much time to update lately. a lot is going on & I cant wait to share with all of you what the Lord is doing in my life & how my life has changed in the last month or so. (believe me- a lot has changed) ( mostly good) I know Brenda & Megan & Becky would really appreciate that I update more often seeing as how they are on the road (miss you/love you guys) promise I'll get to it asap.



Bea

Foolish things

I think it is the best feeling & peace when we stop to think of how blessed we are.

For you see your calling, brethren, that not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called. But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things which are mighty; and the base things of the world and the things which are despised God has chosen, and the things which are not, to bring to nothing the things that are, that no flesh should glory in His presence. But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God and righteousness and sanctification and redemption that, as it is written, "He who glories, let him glory in the LORD."
1 Corinthians 1:26-31